You never know the impact you may have on the life of a child. A rightly spoken word or a timely action, could literally, alter a child’s life. As we shift from adolescent to adult, as the years go by, most of us tend to lose the innocence, the beauty, and the purity of childhood. We tend to lose sight of the most important things, the most valuable things in life. A lot of us, lose sight of reality, the older we get. We forget childhood. We forget innocence. We forget the beauty. We forget the purity, of youth. We forget the dreams of yesteryear. We become negative, hurried, busied, stressed, and frustrated adults. People who live life going through the motions, because that’s what we “have” to do. Take a step back with me. Take a look back with me. Remember. Reflect. Step back to your younger years. Look back to who you were. Remember the excitement, the anticipation, the joy, of a life as a child. Reflect on your childhood dreams. So innocent. So beautiful. So pure. AMAZING. You are still that child. The innocence, beauty, and purity still exist, no matter what you have gone through, no matter how hurt you have been, no matter what you have suffered. You are still a child. There is still excitement. Still anticipation. There is still joy deep within your soul. Your dreams are still available. Attainable. You never know, until you try. You never know, until you take that step of faith. You never know, who you could be. You never know, how much you matter to the children around you. YOU MATTER. God has bestowed gifts, talents, and abilities to you. You are loved! The kids, the youth, the children in your life, they want you. They need you. They are starving for your love, affection, and attention. YOU MATTER. THEY MATTER. Let love flow. Let kindness flow. Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Accessible. Real. Allow yourself to dream, once again. Allow yourself to feel, once again. Allow yourself to matter, once again. Allow yourself to be a child, once again. Extend your hand to the hurting. The hurting child, children, in your life. Be a servant. A servant to the least of these. Boldly. Relentlessly. Fearlessly. Allow your life to be transformed by a child. Allow your life to transform a child. Be strong. Be open. Be an example. Be someone to follow. Today, tomorrow, and until you have breathed your last. Live life fully. Live life for the children. For the next generation. Be the reason. The reason a child has hope for a brighter tomorrow. You never know…….
We experience so many feelings and emotions throughout the day. We have approximately 60,000-80,000 thoughts in a twenty-four hour period. The majority of us deal each day with some kind of anxiety, depression, and fear. There is a lot that happens within our brain, within our mind. Personally, I struggle daily with controlling my mind, controlling my thoughts, and controlling my anxieties. From the time I was a tween, I have had a conscious fight, a conscious battle with my mind. With my feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears. At times when I was younger, I could barely bring myself to get out of bed because the anxiety and fear of the day was so great. There seemed to be an overbearing weight that was upon my shoulders. Recently, over the last several years, I have learned that I have control, full control over my mind. I have control over my thoughts, my anxieties, my fears, and the outcome of my days. I cannot control others. I cannot control the weather, or any other outside variable. But I can control what goes on inside of me. I can control my mind. Now, the feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears are still present in my life. They always will be. They are a part of me until the day I die. But I do not have to be a slave to these feelings, emotion, anxieties, and fears. I do not have to allow these to control my life, how I live, how I serve, how I love. How have I come to the point in my life where I no longer suffer from my anxieties and fears? I have learned that I have to go against the anxiety, the fear, the feelings, and the emotions. I have to attack them. Every day. Each day, head on, aggressively, relentlessly. When my feelings and emotions are strong, when the anxiety and fear is trying to suffocate me and hold me back, I have to decide I am not going to be a victim. I am not going to give in, I am not going to allow what is happing inside of me to effect what I want to accomplish that day, week, month, or year. I AM IN CONTROL! My feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears ARE NOT IN CONTROL! I cannot waste my life. I cannot waste what has been given to me to give. I cannot waste the opportunities I have been presented! I have to live my life fully! I have to be the man I know I am to be! I have to be a leader! I have to be an example! I have to be someone to follow! I must overcome. I must be the master of my mind, all day, every day. I must be stronger then the weakness that wants to win. I accept that I am not perfect. I will never be perfect this side of heaven. Perfection is a myth. But I can work harder, work smarter, learn more, apply more, grow more, mature more, serve more, give more. I can’t stop. I won’t stop. My feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears have no power over me. They have lost. I have won. The fight, the battle continues. The beautiful struggle of life.
No matter where life takes me, I will always remain young at heart. There are so many opportunities in life to allow yourself to become hard hearted. To allow your heart to become jaded, calloused, and cold. Life can be very difficult at times. There are so many unexpected twists and turns. There are a lot of negative, ruthless, and untrustworthy people in life. There are a lot of reasons within life to allow ourselves to become distant from the innocence of our youth. But at the end of the day, I want to experience the fullness of life, experience the fullness of my life. I want to enjoy the journey, the process, and the ups and downs of my life. I want to be youthful in all of my pursuits. I want to remain youthful, youthful in heart, youthful in my soul, youthful in my dreams, and youthful in my actions. I never want to grow up. I never want to lose my innocence of youth. I never want to become an old, mean, has-been. I will continue to wonder. I will continue to imagine. I will continue to dream. I will continue to wander. I will continue to roam. I will continue to question. I will continue to step into the uncomfortable. I will continue to step toward my fears. I will continue to put myself out there, into the unknown. I will continue to share. I will continue to serve. I will continue to learn. I will continue to train. I will continue to allow my spirit to dance freely. I will continue to run my race. I will continue to allow discipline to lead me. I will remain focused. I will continue to be me. I am young. Young at heart. Young in spirit. Today. Tomorrow. Forever.
It’s ok to admit that you are wrong. It’s ok to admit when you don’t know. It’s ok to admit when you mess up, make a mistake, or say something you shouldn’t have. We are all wrong at times. None of us knows absolutely everything. We all mess up, make mistakes, and say things we shouldn’t. All of us are imperfect beings. The troubling thing is though, many people don’t admit when they are wrong. They don’t recognize their lack of knowledge or understanding in areas in which they speak of or on. They don’t admit their mess ups, mistakes, or careless words. Our world is inundated with so many attention whores. People who are addicted to themselves, addicted to their ego, addicted to the reactions and responses they get from others when they say or do ridiculous things. We have a world where people say and do what they want with no repercussions nor consequences. There is little to no accountability. The result of these aforementioned addictions, along with the lack of accountability, is arrogance, self-centeredness, and reckless behavior. I have been around these people who cannot admit they are wrong. Their pride is so strong, they are so self-consumed, they cannot bring themselves to admit their shortcomings. They are blind to their wrong. They cannot see past their ego. We need humility. We need accountability. We need personal accountability. We need discomfort. We need to be tested. Without these, we become inflated. We become content. We become comfortable with our B.S. We only surround ourselves with people, who like us, who are addiction whores as we are. We become a wasted reality. A wasted breath. A wasted, unusable vessel. You are wrong. I am wrong. We are WRONG! We have so much to learn. There is so much to learn! We have so much growth ahead. So many opportunities to try, fail, try again, learn, fail, and continue on. There are so many opportunities for you and me that await. We need to let go of ourselves. Give up ourselves. We need to realize the world is waiting for us to overcome ourselves, so that we can be of service to others. The world is ours for the taking. Don’t be the one who ends up taken by the world. YOU. ARE. WRONG.
I believe all of us have passions deep within our heart. Deep within our soul. I believe too often in life, we either neglect our passions by ignoring them, or we simply allow the business of life to drown them out. I personally have done both. But as I grow older, experience life more, and continue to mature as a young man, all I really want to do is follow and live out my passions. Is there more to life than this? If something excites you, challenges you, fires you up, is that not good? Is that not what life is about? Inside of me, the passions that are burning are training and youth. I love to train. I love to push myself, test myself, and do what others won’t. Physical training has been such an integral part of my life for so long, it is who I am and what I love. The physical training in my life has taken on many forms over the years. I have even stopped physical training for a four year period, but I always find myself back in the training game eventually. I have trained for sport, powerlifting, bodybuilding, distance running, and for life. At times, my training has been weights dominant. At other times, there have been little to no weights. Again, when I have set aside the weight training, I always find myself coming back to it. There is something about the iron game that is woven deep into my DNA. Youth. The next generation. There are so many youth in our world, in our country, who are hurting. Struggling. Desperate for help, encouragement, and love. As an educator, I see first hand how messed up our youth are, how messed up their families are, and how easily they are influenced by the world’s negativity. Our youth are the next leaders. The next CEO’s, doctors, nurses, business men and women, teachers, coaches, military personnel, firefighters, police officers, and entrepreneurs. Our youth are in trouble. They are being led astray. They need positive role models. They need real leaders, real examples, real men and women to show them the way. They need discipline and accountability. My heart yearns to help. My heart burns to be a part of raising up the next generation. Training and youth. Training has changed my life. Youth have changed my life. I want to give back. I must give back. I want to use training to teach youth. To show them the way. It won’t be for everyone. I get that. I’ve seen and experienced that within my own life. But it can definitely be for some. And it can definitely alter the destiny of those who buy in. I am waiting. Waiting for the door to be opened. The passion is there. The fire is burning intensely. Patience is the answer. Patience is the process. It will happen. The door will open. Lives will be changed. I can’t wait.
Be true to yourself. Be true to who you are, who you have become, who you want to be. Be true to your goals, your dreams, and your passions. In this social media age, it is far too easy to lose sight of yourself. We see hundreds, if not thousands of images, videos, and posts each and every day of people’s highlights. We see all of the good, great, and awesome of who people are and what they are doing. With all of these highlights, we can easily feel like we are nothing. Our goals, our dreams, our interests are inferior. This is not the case. Remember, no matter who you are, you have issues, I have issues, we ALL have issues, we all have struggles, we all go through difficult times. Social media is a small glimpse into people’s lives, a lot of the time, this glimpse is fake, or at the minimum, at least altered in some way. Don’t allow yourself to get caught up in someone else’s life, how great they are, how great their feats are, so on and so forth. Focus on you. Block out all the nonsense, all the noise. Focus on what you need to do today to improve, to get better, to become the best version of yourself. The world needs your individuality. The world needs your passion. Live your life. Live your goals, dreams, and passions. Fully. Boldly. Aggressively. Be you. Be a leader. An example. Be someone to follow, today and always. Be true to yourself. Be true to the man you were created to be. Stand strong, and always remember, pride goes before the fall.
The more you give up, the more you put on the line, the more you pursue the uncomfortable, the more you sacrifice, the more passion you will find within your life. Passion comes through sacrifice. Passion come through pain, suffering, difficulty, and hardship. The fire burns strongest, when an abundance of fuel exists. The fire burns brightest, when the darkness closes in. If you want passion, if you want the fire within to burn intensely, then you must be willing to live a life of sacrifice.