You never know the impact you may have on the life of a child. A rightly spoken word or a timely action, could literally, alter a child’s life. As we shift from adolescent to adult, as the years go by, most of us tend to lose the innocence, the beauty, and the purity of childhood. We tend to lose sight of the most important things, the most valuable things in life. A lot of us, lose sight of reality, the older we get. We forget childhood. We forget innocence. We forget the beauty. We forget the purity, of youth. We forget the dreams of yesteryear. We become negative, hurried, busied, stressed, and frustrated adults. People who live life going through the motions, because that’s what we “have” to do. Take a step back with me. Take a look back with me. Remember. Reflect. Step back to your younger years. Look back to who you were. Remember the excitement, the anticipation, the joy, of a life as a child. Reflect on your childhood dreams. So innocent. So beautiful. So pure. AMAZING. You are still that child. The innocence, beauty, and purity still exist, no matter what you have gone through, no matter how hurt you have been, no matter what you have suffered. You are still a child. There is still excitement. Still anticipation. There is still joy deep within your soul. Your dreams are still available. Attainable. You never know, until you try. You never know, until you take that step of faith. You never know, who you could be. You never know, how much you matter to the children around you. YOU MATTER. God has bestowed gifts, talents, and abilities to you. You are loved! The kids, the youth, the children in your life, they want you. They need you. They are starving for your love, affection, and attention. YOU MATTER. THEY MATTER. Let love flow. Let kindness flow. Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Accessible. Real. Allow yourself to dream, once again. Allow yourself to feel, once again. Allow yourself to matter, once again. Allow yourself to be a child, once again. Extend your hand to the hurting. The hurting child, children, in your life. Be a servant. A servant to the least of these. Boldly. Relentlessly. Fearlessly. Allow your life to be transformed by a child. Allow your life to transform a child. Be strong. Be open. Be an example. Be someone to follow. Today, tomorrow, and until you have breathed your last. Live life fully. Live life for the children. For the next generation. Be the reason. The reason a child has hope for a brighter tomorrow. You never know…….
Eric Hinman is an entrepreneur on many fronts. He is currently a content creator and social media influencer. Eric is sponsored by and promotes brands such as, Vital Proteins, Lululemon, Optimum Nutrition, Rockin’ Protein, Saucony, YumButter, among many others. He also owns a couple of restaurants and a gym in his home state of New York. Eric is also an avid health and fitness enthusiast. He has competed in triathlon and currently trains in the functional fitness space. Eric has a wealth of experience as well as knowledge that he shares on this episode. This recording takes place outside of Wonder, in downtown Boulder, Colorado. It was a cloudy, chilly day, with a lot of car traffic and people passing buy during our interview, but we got it done!
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Sean Sewell is a professional dirt-bag. Sean also happens to be the owner of Colorado Personal Fitness, Mountain Fitness School, & Engearment.com. Sean is located in beautiful Denver, Colorado. Sean and I have a great conversation about life’s struggles, fitness, nutrition, and a host of other topics. Sean is an awesome dude! You will really enjoy this episode! Please subscribe, like, share, and review the episode!
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We experience so many feelings and emotions throughout the day. We have approximately 60,000-80,000 thoughts in a twenty-four hour period. The majority of us deal each day with some kind of anxiety, depression, and fear. There is a lot that happens within our brain, within our mind. Personally, I struggle daily with controlling my mind, controlling my thoughts, and controlling my anxieties. From the time I was a tween, I have had a conscious fight, a conscious battle with my mind. With my feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears. At times when I was younger, I could barely bring myself to get out of bed because the anxiety and fear of the day was so great. There seemed to be an overbearing weight that was upon my shoulders. Recently, over the last several years, I have learned that I have control, full control over my mind. I have control over my thoughts, my anxieties, my fears, and the outcome of my days. I cannot control others. I cannot control the weather, or any other outside variable. But I can control what goes on inside of me. I can control my mind. Now, the feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears are still present in my life. They always will be. They are a part of me until the day I die. But I do not have to be a slave to these feelings, emotion, anxieties, and fears. I do not have to allow these to control my life, how I live, how I serve, how I love. How have I come to the point in my life where I no longer suffer from my anxieties and fears? I have learned that I have to go against the anxiety, the fear, the feelings, and the emotions. I have to attack them. Every day. Each day, head on, aggressively, relentlessly. When my feelings and emotions are strong, when the anxiety and fear is trying to suffocate me and hold me back, I have to decide I am not going to be a victim. I am not going to give in, I am not going to allow what is happing inside of me to effect what I want to accomplish that day, week, month, or year. I AM IN CONTROL! My feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears ARE NOT IN CONTROL! I cannot waste my life. I cannot waste what has been given to me to give. I cannot waste the opportunities I have been presented! I have to live my life fully! I have to be the man I know I am to be! I have to be a leader! I have to be an example! I have to be someone to follow! I must overcome. I must be the master of my mind, all day, every day. I must be stronger then the weakness that wants to win. I accept that I am not perfect. I will never be perfect this side of heaven. Perfection is a myth. But I can work harder, work smarter, learn more, apply more, grow more, mature more, serve more, give more. I can’t stop. I won’t stop. My feelings, emotions, anxieties, and fears have no power over me. They have lost. I have won. The fight, the battle continues. The beautiful struggle of life.
Life can have intense times of loneliness. I personally have spent the majority of my life alone, fighting with loneliness. Some of this has been by choice. Other times, not by choice. Even for those who are constantly surrounded by other people, loneliness can have a strong presence within your life. A lot of the time, people allow loneliness to destroy them. They allow the loneliness to eat at them from the inside out. They allow loneliness to be a dark, depressing, and happiness-destroying presence. People allow loneliness to control their life. But what if you take loneliness and embrace it? What if you choose to learn from it? What if you use loneliness as a positive, rather than a negative? This is a new concept for me, personally. Because I am alone and deal with loneliness a lot, I have come to the realization that being alone can have its benefits, and can indeed be a positive thing. I am learning to embrace the loneliness. The alone time within my life. I am taking the loneliness and using it to drive me. I am using it as preparation, I am using it to teach me. I have big dreams. Big aspirations. Big goals. I want to live life fully. I want to be the man I was created to be. I am using the loneliness to drive me towards my dreams, aspirations, and goals. I am using loneliness to prepare me for my future spouse. I want to do everything the way I would do it, as if I was married, and had someone else to consider and serve. I am also using loneliness to teach me more about myself. Who am I? What do I want out of life? Where am I going? Am I being an example? A leader? Am I practicing what I am preaching? There are days that suck. Days that are difficult, frustrating, overwhelming. I will never deny that. The loneliness sucks. It really sucks at times. But I have accepted it. I am learning to accept the loneliness, I am learning to learn from the loneliness. I will not allow the loneliness within my life to distract me, deter me, or effect who I know I can become. Everyone deals with loneliness at some point in life. Some of us deal with it daily, others, sparingly, but loneliness is a reality for all. It is how we choose to look at loneliness and react to it that defines us and will continue to define us as individuals. Life is not perfect. It never will be. Life will always be imperfect. There will always be highs and lows. Twists and turns. Ups and downs. Times of peace, times of turmoil, and times of intensity. We as humans, have to learn to remain steadfast. We have to learn to remain steady. We have to learn to overcome. That we may grow, mature, and become individuals who shine brightly in the midst of the darkness. Embrace your life. Embrace the good, the bad, and the in-between. Embrace, learn, grow, and become.
I won’t back down. I can’t back down. I won’t quit. I can’t quit. I won’t give in. I will continue to do what needs to get done. I will continue to do what I know I need to do, each day, every day. A lot of days suck, a lot of days are no “Fun.” But that is OK with me. This is what I have been created for. This is what I want, what I have chosen. While you and others indulge in distraction, I will continue working on getting better, stronger, and smarter. I am preparing for the future. Brick by small brick, I am building, creating something new out of the old. I won’t be distracted, I won’t be caught unprepared. You won’t throw me off course. I am focused. I am hyper-focused. Locked-in. Dialed-in. Ready. This place is lonely. But I am learning. I am learning so much about myself and others within the loneliness. You think you know, you think you have it all together, all figured out, but you don’t. You are trapped within a false reality created by and for yourself. You are another soul living in a world of mediocrity and average. I have to rise above, I have to block out all of the noise, block out all of the distractions. I must continue the fight. Continue to fight each day to live the hard, difficult life, that I was born to live.
Peter Maksimow is a sponsored athlete. He has run for team USA. Peter’s forte is mountain and trail running. In our conversation, we cover Peter’s struggle through recovery from an injury, his love for traveling, and a lot of other fun, interesting, and challenging topics.