I Will

I want to serve you.  I will serve you.  I want to listen to you.  I will listen to you.  I want to love you.  I will love you.  I want to be the man you’ve always wanted.  I will be the man you’ve always wanted.  I am not perfect.  I don’t have it all figured out.  I am unfinished.  I am learning.  But I have been waiting for this moment for nearly 32 years.  Yearning for this moment, preparing for this moment, anticipating this moment.  I don’t know your future.  I don’t know my future.  I don’t know our future.  But, I will give you everything within me to give.  I will serve you.  Listen to you.  Love you.  The best I can.  The best I know how.  I will be the man God created me to be.  I can be nothing more.  And what will be, will be.

P.S. I Love You

I want to share life. I want to share life with you. I enjoy my alone time. I enjoy my solitude. I enjoy being free to do what I want. But I am beyond ready to give up that freedom. It’s not about me. It’s not about what I want, my alone time, my solitude, my freedom. It’s about serving another. Someone else. It’s about becoming one. Walking, living, in unity. It’s about sharing my life with you. You sharing your life with me. It’s not about my adventure, it’s about “our” adventure. Together, we are free. Together, we are strong. Together, we are unified. Together, we will struggle. Together, we will disagree. Together, we will fall. But, together, we will learn. Together, we will grow. Together, we will mature. Together, we become better. More loving. More caring. Kinder. Tougher. More humble. More patient. More resilient. Together, we are complete. Two cords are not easily broken. I am yours. You are mine. You are beautiful. You are intelligent. You are persistent. You are passionate. To me, for me, you are perfect. Together, we will explore, experience, wander, wonder, and dream. Together, our lives will shine. Thank you for being you. Thank you for being bold. I can’t wait for our first date. Our first conversation. Our first walk hand in hand under the star studded sky. Our first embrace. Our first kiss. Together. Until death do us part. I can’t wait. But I will. See you soon.

P.S.

I love you

Valentines Day

Not having a significant other on Valentine’s Day sucks.  The older I get, the more it sucks.  I am not stating this to get attention.  I am not stating this to get sympathy.  I am stating this because I know there are a lot of people out there who can relate.  I am always happy for others who are happy.  When I have the opportunity to see people who are loving life, it puts a smile on my face.  When I see couples holding hands, showing each other affection, my heart smiles.  But the reality for me, and I know the reality for a lot of others out there, is the fact that life can be very lonely.  Even when we are surrounded by others, even when we have deep, connected fellowship with other humans, such as friends, family, co-workers etc., the truth is, there is nothing that can replace the fulfillment, love, joy, and security of a significant other.  There is nothing more beautiful then loving and being loved, deeply, intimately, and securely by a significant other.  If you find yourself alone today in the midst of those you are surrounded by, if you find yourself yearning for the beauty of a life shared with a significant other, if you find yourself frustrated today, let me encourage you with this…….Life unfolds as life unfolds.  Use this season of life you are in right now to refine yourself, improve yourself, and prepare yourself for the time when your significant other appears.  Be the best version of yourself today, tomorrow, and in all the days to come.  Continue to be a leader.  An example.  Someone to follow.  Continue to serve.  Continue to learn.  Continue to love.  Continue to be someone that someone else would want to be with.  No matter what you are feeling today, no matter how overwhelming your emotions may be today, today is a gift, today is an opportunity, and today is beautiful.  Open your heart, and allow your light to shine.

Chris Ward: Like A Bigfoot Podcast Host, Ultrarunner, and All Around Good Dude

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-6vqqh-a76930

Chris is the host of Like a Bigfoot Podcast.  Chris’ podcast is an awesome listen for anyone who is interested in physical culture and self-improvement.  Chris is also a Husband, Dad, ultra-runner, and 7th grade science teacher.  Chris and I have a fun, relaxed conversation about a wide-array of topics.  Chris and I have a handful of things in common, including our home state of Iowa.  We start off our conversation discussing some “Iowan” things and then dive into mindset, teaching, ultrarunning, the importance of being an example for youth, and much more!  Chris is a super positive and good dude!  We had a lot of fun with this episode!  Enjoy!

Chris’ Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/likeabigfoot/

Website:

http://likeabigfoot.com/

127 Fit Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/127fitness/

The Vision

127 Fit/Fitness

127:

The 127 in 127 Fit/Fitness is a reference to the Bible verse, James 1:27, which states, Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans (fatherless) and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.  (NKJV)

Fitness. – We fitness.

Thoughts. – We share thoughts.

Life. – We live life fully.

Vision Statement:

127 Fit/Fitness exists to help the hurting.  Specifically, to help those hurting youth who are without a father.  Our focus is to teach, mentor, and lead fatherless youth through the gift of physical fitness.  We have all been given a gift to give.  Until our final breath, we will relentlessly strive to pass on our gift of physical fitness to the next generation.

Be Someone to Follow:

Be a leader.  Be an example.  Be the leader.  Be the example.  Be someone to follow.  Each day.  Every day.  No matter what.  The youth are watching.  Observing.  Imitating.  We need to be better.  Stronger.  Kinder.  We live fearlessly.  Boldly.  Relentlessly.  Passionately.  We need to live in love.  We need to live in service.  We need to live in community.  It’s not about us.  It’s about others.  We dream.  We wander.  We explore.  We discover.  We learn.  We live.  We teach.  We model.  We fail.  We succeed.  We pass on.  Our days are short.  Our days are numbered.  Be someone to follow.

Podcast:

The 127 Fit Podcast is a platform for individuals within the health and fitness community to be able to share their story, that those who listen would be positively impacted.  Each of us has a unique life/fitness story.  At 127 Fit/Fitness, we firmly believe in the power of an individual’s story!  You never know when your story is shared, how it may impact someone who hears it!  We all have ups and downs in life, sometimes, we just simply need to know that someone else has gone through, or is going through something similar to us.  The podcast is also an opportunity to connect, interact, and build life-long relationships with those of us who are passionate about health and fitness!

Health Foundation:

Sleep

Nutrition

Movement

Mindset 

If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small.

-Proverbs 24:10

Please and Thank You

Please and thank you. Simple words. Powerful words. Kind words. Words of manner. Words that seem to have been lost. When I was growing up, I was instructed to use my manners. I was instructed to say please, to say thank you. Today, I rarely hear anyone, young or old, use please and thank you. Why? As a teacher, I am appalled at how often I don’t hear my students using please and thank you in their speech. Sometimes, I am blown away when a student of mine doesn’t even know what using your manners means. I believe the loss of these words, please and thank you, are a direct reflection on the entitled culture we live in. It is also a direct reflection of the arrogant culture we live in. So many people, young and old, have this idea that they have it all together, and have it all figured out. They get what they want, when they want, how they want. Using your manners, please and thank you specifically, is an indication of humility, kindness, and respect. When someone is entitled, arrogant, and disrespectful, their speech will reflect this. Even though I grew up learning to use my manners, I am far from perfect. At times in my life, I have failed to use my manners to the fullest. At times in my life, I have been the entitled, arrogant, and disrespectful individual. But now as an adult, a teacher, and having the burning desire deep with my soul to be someone to follow, I have been focusing lately on using my manners, please and thank you as much as possible. I find using my manners especially valuable when interacting, speaking, and asking my student to do or not to do something. I am finding when my speech is full of please and thank you, I have greater self-control and a stronger hold on my emotions. These are very important when you are a teacher, parent, or coach. Please and thank you. There is always room for improvement, growth, and maturity, no matter your educational background, age, or financial status. Let’s stay focused on the little things. The simple things. Let’s start small. Let’s start with our words. Let’s start with please and thank you. Let’s see where this will take us.

Jen Peters: CEO and Chief Foodie Officer at Just BE Kitchen

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-mf7ca-a64fc8

Jen is the Founder, CEO, and Chief Foodie Officer at Just Be Kitchen.  Just BE Kitchen is a gluten, grain, dairy & refined sugar-free fast-casual restaurant serving wholesome comfort food so you can BE great!  Jen and I have an awesome conversation covering a variety of topics including, entrepreneurship, fitness, leadership, legacy, and much more!  Jen is an amazing woman who exudes positivity!  You will thoroughly enjoy this conversation and episode!  Please remember to leave a review on iTunes for the 127 Fit Podcast!  Thanks!

Jen’s Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/justbekitchen/

Website:

http://justbekitchen.com/

127 Fitness’ Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/127fitness/